The Cause For The Emotionally Unstable
Borderline Personality Disorder?"
By Michael Weisz
Have you ever
asked yourself what may be the reasons
behind the Emotionally Unstable
Borderline Personality Disorder?
There are three main
causes for the emotional instability in BPD.
The first one is
assumed to be comprised by a mild inherited
physical deficiency of emotion regulation.
Still, scientific studies are not clear
about the question if this deficiency is
really inherited or comes as a consequence
of borderline personality. Future studies
will have to clarify this dilemma.
The second cause is
represented by the absence or learned weak
emotion management abilities. These
abilities are mainly learned and they are
comprised by mental strategies aimed to
adjust the interpretation of events we face
in such a way that they become less painful
emotionally, and strategies to adjust the
way one sees reality to be interpreted in
more realistic and logical ways.
The third cause of
emotionally unstable borderline personality
disorder is represented by specific patterns
of thoughts, beliefs, and attitudes
triggered by present life events and
But the main aspect
of these cognitions is that they stem from
painful and invalidating experiences in the
child-parent relationship from childhood.
Once formed these
thinking patterns become somewhat
independent and get activated every time a
similar stimuli or situation is detected to
the one that originally led to their
What this also means
is that these patterns can be changed and
replaced with new healthy and adaptive ones
through the same process the original
unhelpful ones were acquired. And that
process is called learning.
So what can one do
to come in control of his/her emotionally
unstable borderline personality disorder?
One way to do that
is to reinterpret your painful early life
experiences. See, our brain is constantly
searching for the sense and meaning of
things that happen to us, and the same
process went on in your subconscious mind
when you were abused, deprecated, bullied,
or disrespected by significant persons when
you were a child, drawing negative and
deprecating conclusions about yourself. And
there are specific techniques and strategies
to reverse that process.
Further on, you will
need to not just think in positive terms
about yourself, but to also act and behave
toward yourself and others in such ways that
they will turn into positive reinforcements
for your newfound healthy and adaptive
So if you want to
take you education on treating your
borderline personality to the next level, my
"Borderline Personality Begone!"
Program will definitely help you.
It is very efficient
because it combines strategies that help you
indirectly AND also directly to transform
those thoughts, beliefs, and thinking
patterns of yours that trigger the BPD
symptoms, manifestations, and emotions into
new positive ones.
So if you really
want to get rid of your borderline
personality once and for all, you should
definitely try it out. It is built around
the exact therapy system I used to treat my
own borderline personality in just a few
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