Develops Over Time"
Understand How Borderline Personality
Develops Over The Years
By Michael Weisz
In this article I am
going to explain how the consistent the
consequences of the consistent invalidations
can add up up the point when they develop
into borderline personality.
The keyword here is "consistent".
See, our brain learns through the principle
of repetition. When it is stimulated
repeatedly by the same information or
messages over a
longer period of time, it thinks that that
information is important for your survival
and it "stores" it.
Let me give you an example.
What do you do if you want to learn a new
poem? You sit down and repeat the text and
the rhymes until you can reproduce it by
What about a new song? You'll play
it on your CD player and learn it by singing
along, isn't it?
What about a new phone number? You'll
probably need to repeat it 10-20 times until
you'll know it by heart.
these examples the learning process is deliberate
and the information is explicit.
borderline personality the
self-defeating "messages" and "hints"
that are sent by the consistent
learned implicitly, you without being aware
Our brain "scrutinizes" constantly the
environment and learns every stimuli and
piece of information that reoccurs
consistently over time.
case of constant invalidations, our brains
learn the implicit messages of the
invalidations we encounter.
For example, if one of the consistent
invalidations you were faced with in
childhood was emotional coldness, the
implicit message you have probably perceived
was "I am unlovable", or "I don't
deserve to be loved", or another similar one.
Since you were faced with this invalidation
for years and years, the repeated implicit
message "I am unlovable" was picked up by
your subconscious mind and has turned it
into your internal reality.
Are you working hard to convince yourself
that you are lovable, worthy, important,
respectable etc but it feels like lying
That's because your inner reality is not
made up by your logic, but by the beliefs
and thinking patterns that are "stored" in your
And this is just one belief that is commonly
found in people who suffer from borderline
personality. There are many other ones as
well that work in a systematic fashion,
"jumping" from one group of such
self-defeating beliefs and thinking patterns
to the next one, with their emotional and
The GOOD NEWS is that our brain is very
flexible in acquiring and integrating new
pieces of information, beliefs, and
thoughts. If they are positive and are used
consistently, eventually they will replace
your old self-defeating inner reality with
this new positive and self-loving one.
Our emotions and behaviors are ALWAYS
"produced" by our thoughts. So the only way to
change your racing emotions, your inner
void, your lack of identity, your impulsive
behaviors, your almost constant worry,
anxiety, and depression is by replacing the
thoughts that are generating them with new
self-loving, self-valuing, and
YOU too can transform your self-defeating
thoughts once you know all the necessary
insights and exercises.
Just because you had a painful past it doesn't
mean that your future has to be the same.
With the right information and techniques
any BPD person
create new positive precedents in his or her life
to replace the past negative ones that have
created their borderline personality. And
YOU can too!
And my new "Borderline Personality
Begone!" Program does just that!
it I am teaching you everything you need to know
to become an EXPERT in healing your
borderline personality YOURSELF. From all
the key elements of borderline personality,
to detailed step-by-step techniques,
strategies, exercises, and insights that
deactivate your old self-defeating thoughts
and thinking patterns, and replace them with
new positive ones.
For instance one of the most powerful technique
I have discovered to produce fast and
lasting results in changing the
self-defeating beliefs with new
self-validating ones is positive affirmations.
They practically "tear out" past unhealthy beliefs and
attitudes by implanting the new positive
ones that YOU want to become your reality.
For example, a
minute ago I mentioned the "I am unlovable"
self-defeating belief. The positive
affirmation to replace it is "I am a
lovable person". Through repetition
this affirmation will become your new inner
reality, your new belief system.
my program you'll find a collection of
techniques, exercises, and strategies to
help you get maximum results in the shortest
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